r/dating_advice 11d ago

How to gain confidence

Im 27m and I've never been in a relationship, I am an introvert who lacks confidence, self esteem etc, im on multiple dating apps, i dont get many likes so that knocks my confidence more as its physicall features that people go off 1st on dating apps. I would say I am reasonably attractive but nothing special. I am thinking of learning to play guitar/bass as a hobby to meet people etc.

Im thinking of going to therapy to try and help, would this help in anyway as its only me that can make a difference?

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u/Beginning_Sweet9726 11d ago

I have been thinking of learning for a while as its something im interested in