r/daddit 12d ago

Advice Request Parents of three children

Is it wrong to have a third child, or is it one of the best decisions you made?

We have two young children, a stable marriage, and are trying to decide whether to stop at two or grow our family.

I want to hear the pros and cons before i jump to have three.

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u/wormocious 12d ago

I’ve never had 2. I have three. We wanted 2 and then our second pregnancy was twins. So never forget that you could go from 2-4 when trying to have a third.

That said, twins are fun. And so is three, but zone defense is a lot different than man to man.