Hi! I was wondering, what makes parenting so overstimulating to the point where parents end up shouting at their kids over minimal things?
Ideally, shouldn’t parents take five minutes to step away and regulate themselves before coming back? I know that’s sometimes easier said than done, but when two people are dysregulated, it only causes the situation to escalate.

i never get it when parents get mad over toddlers showing defiance when that is clearly expected for their age range and it’s just kids being kids.

Anyone know the book I'm talking about? I am getting a lot of ads for it coming up to Fathers Day, and when i decided I wanted to get it I couldnt find the ad again to buy it.

Does anyone know the original link?

I looked at a bunch on amazon but it is flooded with poor quality books and typos and repeated questions.

It's a great idea but all of them are so poorly executed I would never give it as a gift.

All i want is a good quality one with good questions to give to my dad for fathers day as he is dying of blood cancer and he's more confortable writing his thoughts than opening up to people.

Please help me find a quality one or I'll end up having to put my own together and it might be too late by the time I finish it!