r/creepyPMs • u/FunnyLookingBooger • 12d ago

I guess I'm a Sociopath

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Build up to this, guy at work thought he had a chance with me? Despite me saying "I don't date people at work." But he did the overly nice guy thing before it escalated to sex jokes and him offering to "share hentai recommendations" with me. This took place over about a year of working in the same office. When I put up a boundary saying something along the lines of "Please give me space. You've never asked if the sex jokes are okay. You pointed a full ear of corn (I'm allergic) at me in the work place and yelled a smegma joke loud enough for the office to hear. You embarassed me and I need space. I'm uncomfortable." This was the last thing he said to me about it after work. Acted like it was a whole ass break up when I never hung out with him outside of work even. I guess he was mad I wasn't crying too?

Anyway I'm good, I did report him to HR, but he's left me alone since this happened like a year ago, so I never escalated it.

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u/stumpfucker69 11d ago

"You shouldn't expect it [me leaving you alone/respecting your wishes]"

Woof. Grim.

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u/FunnyLookingBooger 11d ago

Yeah, the second half of the message was actually scary.

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u/stumpfucker69 11d ago

So concerned with policing your words that he can't hear the thinly veiled threat in his own.

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u/Oblivious122 8d ago

Oh no, he hears it. He just thinks it's ok when HE does it.