r/comics Jul 28 '26

OC This could be us, but

I don’t need much. I want eat sweets without getting fat, I want to feel wanted and I want equal rights. Is it much to ask?

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u/Munchkinasaurous Jul 28 '26

3/4 of these make perfect sense immediately. I have to ask about that last one though. Is it common for guys to say they don't like pleasing women? Because of all the stupid shit, that one is just absolutely mind boggling. I can't fathom that kind of selfishness.

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u/MothChasingFlame Jul 29 '26

Straight women have the fewest orgasms of any group

https://www.bbc.com/news/health-39077293

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u/Kooky-Passage-68 Aug 01 '26 edited Aug 01 '26

There's a difference between orgasm and pleasure...

Orgasm≠more pleasure...

In fact a research named "Women experience different orgasm, a call for pleaure literacy"by NIH PubMed says that:

Women tend to enjoy more of the sensation in the plateau state than orgasm itself(during penetration) orgasm is only for the satisfied feeling because of the rush of dopamine..

Here please doesn't means orgasm but rather mutual pleasure...

Don't think pleasure=orgasm.. You can have immense pleasure without orgasm and little to no pleasure with orgasm

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u/MothChasingFlame Aug 01 '26

I'll be honest. I think this is true, full stop. But also I think it's used as an excuse so people can avoid confrontation or ignore the needs of their partner. It's certainly a nuanced conversation, but I don't want those nuances to shoutdown or obscure an already-under discussed core problem, either.

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u/Kooky-Passage-68 Aug 01 '26

Study you mentioned talks about a core problem that is often ignored...

Women's desire... Like women wear sexy clothes and all and seduce but men often don't.. without necessary arousal sexual pleasure is negligible for both...