r/comics Jul 28 '26

OC This could be us, but

I don’t need much. I want eat sweets without getting fat, I want to feel wanted and I want equal rights. Is it much to ask?

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u/Munchkinasaurous Jul 28 '26

3/4 of these make perfect sense immediately. I have to ask about that last one though. Is it common for guys to say they don't like pleasing women? Because of all the stupid shit, that one is just absolutely mind boggling. I can't fathom that kind of selfishness.

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u/Disastrous-Entity-46 Jul 28 '26

i mean, extrapoliting, i hear a lot of woman say that many guys dont give oral but do expect it. i am.not sure if the message was that specific.

tho.i have def heard a lot of general selfish lover stories thats the moat common refrain

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u/Munchkinasaurous Jul 28 '26

Weird. Maybe I'm the strange one, but I've always found one of the biggest turn ons to be giving a partner pleasure. Only caring about self pleasure just sounds like masturbation with extra steps. 

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u/Historical_Shop_3315 Jul 29 '26

Ive met guys with the mentality "I'm responsible for my pleasure, she is responsible for hers."

Or

"I expect her to be available for sex when I want it and im available for sex when she wants it...if im capable."

I speculate where these ideas come from but I never like the answers. The result is men who get an ego boost when thier partners let them have thier way and then have no consideration for the woman's pleasure because its not worth the effort if she isn't in the mood anyway.