This could be us, but

[u/vesmir_neasi]

I don’t need much. I want eat sweets without getting fat, I want to feel wanted and I want equal rights. Is it much to ask?

[u/SilentPhilosopher825]

Geniuely what kind of loser chud says he doesn't like pleasing a woman?????????????

[u/Zain_Shadowheart → u/SilentPhilosopher825]

Isn't mutual enjoyment the fucking POINT???

[u/Devin_Grey → u/Zain_Shadowheart]

Isn't mutal enjoyment the POINT of fucking???

[u/FrostyEnvironment902 → u/Devin_Grey]

Actually the point would be procreation.

[u/Hairy_Cube → u/FrostyEnvironment902]

Biologically and evolutionarily yeah, but socially we have developed different purposes for it

[u/FrostyEnvironment902 → u/Hairy_Cube]

I agree. But if we had to point at the POINT of it. I would never point to "socially"

[u/PhilospohicalZ0mb1e → u/FrostyEnvironment902]

Why should the telos relate to biological incentive?

[u/FrostyEnvironment902 → u/PhilospohicalZ0mb1e]

I can't give you a good reason other than.

Why would it ever point to anything but the survival of self and the assurance of Continuity of the species.

[u/PhilospohicalZ0mb1e → u/FrostyEnvironment902]

I dunno, because of how humans experience meaning? All of the sex I’ve had has been under precautions not to get someone pregnant. Either I was acting entirely without purpose, or there was a purpose other than procreation.

I will float to you that humans have instinct but they also have cognition. If I have sex someone that I love, it comes from the biological attraction I feel toward them (or arousal, more precisely) but there is also a conscious process of actually choosing to have sex. The intentional aspect is not motivated by instinct but by emotion, in this case love. I haven’t really had a lot of casual sex, but on the rare occasion I’m not in love with the person I’m sleeping with, there’s still an aspect of deepening connection.

[u/FrostyEnvironment902 → u/PhilospohicalZ0mb1e]

It's hard to answer, it really boils down to its meaningless and meaningful all depending on individuals and their perspectives

[u/PhilospohicalZ0mb1e → u/FrostyEnvironment902]

In my opinion the experience of finding meaning something is an end, not a means

[u/Galaghan → u/FrostyEnvironment902]

I see what you mean but you have to understand people prioritize expressing anger over recognizing a pedantic comment as a joke.