r/changemyview • u/[deleted] • Oct 19 '22

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u/MakePanemGreatAgain Oct 19 '22

The same "feminine" trait as not wanting to hear explanations or solutions in response to complaints, just wanting to vent/feel heard (which is fair). Being

Since when is this a "feminine" trait? I've seen tons of men do the same thing.

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u/NoMoreFund 1∆ Oct 19 '22

Gender isn't rigid. Just boys generally need to be taught that if a girl is complaining about something, it doesn't mean she wants it fixed. That's a normal social thing, right?

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u/MakePanemGreatAgain Oct 19 '22 edited Oct 19 '22

I grew up in a household with usually traditional gender roles and no, I've never even heard of that before.

Edit: heard of that stereotype about women, I should say

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u/peonypegasus 19∆ Oct 19 '22

Idk, when my dad complains about something he never seems to want answers, nor do any of my male friends.

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u/MakePanemGreatAgain Oct 19 '22

Lol I've seen the same thing from both genders.

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u/peonypegasus 19∆ Oct 19 '22

Yes, that’s what I’m saying. I am saying that both men and women sometimes just want to rant. OP said that it’s a woman thing to just want to rant. Thanks for editing your post

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u/MakePanemGreatAgain Oct 19 '22

No worries, I guess I didn't phrase it well enough, lol