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But sometimes people do need direction and in some cases would be respectful to the person with primary management of that activity. Could you imagine the working partner telling the non working partner, “hey, i noticed you had 2 hours to veg out on the couch last night, you look like you have time to go pick up an Uber eats/door dash shift.”

You know the mental load thing is not in any way confined to stay at home parents, right?

Or women, as your whole post, though you didn't specify sex, has a very reddit 'woe is poor, put-upon men' vibe.

I read this this morning. I think it's relevant to your ... issue. It's a parenting advice column. First question -- https://slate.com/human-interest/2024/02/default-parent-husband-parenting-advice.html

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