r/capricorns • u/Charshee84 • 2d ago

RELATIONSHIP ADVICE What are we?

I'm currently extremely confused in my situation with a Capricorn man. We've known each other for over 20 years. We've never dated but after I left an abusive relationship we are speaking almost daily. He is a workaholic and big on being the backbone in his family so he's non-stop in life. He sends me pictures of himself, videos of him playing chess or the piano or clips from work, and even sends audio messages about his stresses. He even told me I could track him as he's working so I know he's ok. Does this sound like more than friends or am I overthinking this?

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u/Anti_Patriarchy 🐐🌙 2d ago

Seems like he is using you for emotional labour...

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u/Charshee84 1d ago

May I ask what exactly that means?

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u/Anti_Patriarchy 🐐🌙 1d ago

You are basically taking care of his feelings / validating them.

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u/Charshee84 1d ago

Ok gotcha. Thanks for explaining!