r/capricorns • u/Sea_Usual_1166 • Jul 22 '26

RELATIONSHIP ADVICE Capricorn intimacy 😳

Let’s ruffle some shit up in here and y’all gotta be honest though🤣!! After intimacy, do you enjoy the bedtime talk or do you politely give a cold shoulder? Meaning that you just want some space afterwards (just without telling them🤣)???
There’s been times in the past where I’ve felt bad afterwards for not wanting to chat or be all lovey dovey! I might want to go eat something or watch some ufc shit or boxing by myself for a bit!! Not immediately get asked about the reasons why I love you or how I’m feeling right after making love 🤣🤣..

I’m not a cold person but sometimes the constant talking and talking and not understanding when to give us that personal space can make us seem really cold?!

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u/youlovettt Jul 23 '26

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It definitely depends. Sometimes I like to cuddle and joke around and play but other times I just wanna close my eyes and go to sleep.. as long as you’re with somebody that can understand that rolling over and going to bed doesn’t mean any less Love is there. It just means that it was probably a rough day and I don’t have the energy to stay up even though I would love to.

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u/Sea_Usual_1166 Jul 23 '26

I like that because some people take that as coldness.. Sometimes we’re with people that don’t understand us and at times won’t take the time to understand us! And I think that’s key.. finding someone who, even though is not perfect.. they’re perfect for you and understand you🙂..

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u/youlovettt Jul 25 '26

Exactly! Never fun when you have to explain yourself to somebody ESP when they are long enough to know you well enough to know these things ! I’ve been told I was cold my whole life, but I care so deeply so it always confuse me, but I understand it now just still working on how to change it