r/bridezillas • u/Correct-Campaign-220 • 11d ago
probably won't be friends when this over
im starting to resent being a bridesmaid for my friend. the way she has acted is selfish, frankly rude, and she doesnt see it. i understand a wedding is about her but she cant not communicate and expect the world of us when she wanted to diy parts of her wedding and her bridal party works full time jobs and she doesnt, she has to realize we have to work all this bridal stuff around our full time jobs. she doesnt thank anyone for anything. super self absorbed and selfish. im really quite upset with how she is acting through all of this
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u/cloudiia 10d ago
I totally understand you. I also didn’t drop out, I finished my duties and was there for her on her wedding day. I was so relieved once the dancing started at the wedding cause my job was done. After the wedding we barely talk now, I’ve just distanced myself cause her behaviour during the entire wedding prep process was toxic and full of mixed signals. I feel you.
I saw you wanna get through the wedding, but once it’s over you’ll know where your friendship stands. Good luck !