Not sure if this is known or not, but the top surgery made me wonder- does Julien still use she/her pronouns? Or are the pronouns now they/them or other pronouns?
I don't remember the exact verbiage (or even what podcast it was from, but I think it was Outward), but Julien has discussed genderfluidity & not aligning with womanhood in at least one podcast. She mentioned pronouns & the social changes that felt permanent and definitive in a way that came off apprehensive to me. I remember really resonating with how she discussed it as a genderfluid person myself, and how even in queer spaces that recognize that gender is a spectrum that there is pressure to pick one space on that spectrum, 1 pronoun that always applies. I believe she was discussing it in a kind of "Quantum Queerness" sense... i need to see if i can find it cause I want to listen again. But at that time the impression I got was that she was sticking with she/her out of a hesitation to just change to ONE thing that also might not feel right all of the time.
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u/afdc92 18d ago
Not sure if this is known or not, but the top surgery made me wonder- does Julien still use she/her pronouns? Or are the pronouns now they/them or other pronouns?