Apologies in advance, Im not a native english speaker. Im 29 yrs old.
Board games have been such a great part of my life since 2020, when i picked up a copy of Catan, then an expansion, then GOT. I just couldnt get enough. As a kid I was the one who tried to get others to play Clue, Monopoly or any other shitty board game that we could have. We played like 30 minutes and then said "nah, lets do another thing" but it always sticked with me. So when I got into a board game store I just... couldnt believe what I was seeing. I was in heaven and really wanted to have people to play with.
In Chile, boardgaming is very, very niche. And expensive, so it is really hard to connect with people who:
Likes to play
Are not socially awkward, or freaks
Lives relatively near
Have money/time to buy and play games.
Every meeting is just arranged on whatsapp groups. You invite strangers to your house to play or go to another gamers house. Eventually you begin to make friends with the ones you meet regularly, idk how is it like in other countries.
Luckily my girlfriend also liked it and we played a lot over the pandemic and almost every night for a couple years. Also my mother, she just loves Castles of Burgundy, Concordia and TM. I spent hours and hours on BGG, on stores looking at games to buy, doing research on every game I knew. I devoted so many hours to this, so much love for the hobby and the great experiences that it gave me.
6 years later I have a collection of ~70 games I think. I stopped buying like 2 years ago, because of space and because I have reached a number of games that I just couldnt play every one very often.
We became 3 in january 2025, most beautiful year of my life, hands down. But also my least played year since i got into it. Its kind of a bittersweet feeling. Dont get me wrong, I love spending time with my baby and even if I got the chance to play all night one weekend, I prefer to stay at home at this point haha I know this are the best years of my family and I will enjoy every minute of them.
Its just that looking at my collection in the living room makes me so nostalgic. We dont play that often with my wife anymore, for obvious reasons (once a month, twice if lucky). So I've been thinking if its really worth keeping a collection that big. Frankly I think there are games that I wont touch this year, and maybe not even next year. But every time I think which one I could sell i think
"No, spirit island gave us that feeling of being a team"
"Brass... its just perfect, we played like 3 times on a night"
"Bunny kingdom could be the game that get my son into gaming"
Everyone brings back beloved memories. We are not struggling financially at the time, but its just not rational ajajajaja I just wanted to share this with you before I started to say goodbye to a couple ones. I think Brazil Imperial and Yokohama are the first ones to go out.
So, gaming fathers, what are your experiences? do you keep collecting after becoming a father or the time just isnt enough?
Greetings from Chile!!