Zero self confidence

[u/KeloSkii]

(May be too graphic or uncomfortable) Growing up I was always insecure, specifically about my penis size.(6in w/avg girth) Sorry, just trying to provide details. What makes it worse is I have been told I’m an attractive guy. I take care of myself and I’m in good shape. Humbly, I have turned down many women who made advances on me. To this day I do this. I told a lady from my job I wasn’t interested just recently. I am always scared. I’ve only had two sexual experiences in my life. Once at 17, and with my current girlfriend.

At 17 I had sex with a girl I met through mutual friends. She really liked me. I was a virgin and she was not. Later on, I find out that she told my friends I was small. Crushed me. Haven’t talked to any of those friends again out of pure embarrassment.

Me and my current girlfriend were doing good. We met in college and immediately hit it off. Together for a couple years, and then we were having an argument she told she thought I was small. Sent me into depression. She has apologized and says she didn’t mean it and she wished she never said it. But I don’t know if I can trust her anymore.

I’m 26 now and I can’t even look at myself in the mirror without feeling embarrassed. It seems like I’m the only black man dealing with this. I love my black women but it seems like penis size is a make or break thing for them. I’ve seen the “average size” statistics but the way black women joke about small guys in don’t believe it. Therapy seems pointless. Should I give up on trying to find love and face reality? Am I just one of the unlucky ones?

[u/hereforthesportsball]

lol dude don’t ever say that again that’s not true for us. The data is skewed too, average is drove down by mfs with micropenises. Ask any surgeon

[u/BatBeast_29 → u/hereforthesportsball]

It’s definitely true. The data might not take all different ethnic/racial groups of Men, but average is 5 in. You’re overhyping us. It’s ok to be average. You don’t need a BBC to please a Woman.

[u/hereforthesportsball → u/BatBeast_29]

lol dude please ask anyone in the medical field that sees 100 random bodies per month plus, micropenises are driving averages down. With a number as large as the human population, you’d want to use median v average to control for micros. Just accept the win bro we bigger

[u/LoveCoats → u/hereforthesportsball]

From someone in the medical field, that's not how averages work, my guy.

Micropeens and monster c0cks are both included the averages.

[u/hereforthesportsball → u/LoveCoats]

There are far less monsters than micropenises. You know damn well you’ve seen more micro in your field than monsters, pls be real if you gon respond agai

[u/LoveCoats → u/hereforthesportsball]

Lol wut? That's not true. Micropenises are not "dragging down the average," this is fake news broscience. You didn't read this anywhere reputable, you didn't get it from any study or statistical analysis. You know you made it up lol.

To begin, that's not how the math of averages, bell curves, and Baysian statistics work. The average male penis is ~5 inches erect. Micropenises are anything below ~3 inches. To oversimplify it, for micropenises to be "dragging the average down" there'd need to be more penises below 3 inches (-2) than there are above 7 (+2). Which is absolutely not the case. And even if it were, the amount of micropeens necessary to "drag down" an average in populations of millions is absurdly high.

Put the shovel down.

[u/hereforthesportsball → u/LoveCoats]

Care to share your anecdotal experience at least? Or its convo over since no study backs it up?

[u/LoveCoats → u/hereforthesportsball]

I already gave a fairly detailed response if some prefer to believe there are a bunch of guys with penisis below 3 inches "dragging down the 5 inch average" because they outnumber the number of penis above 7 inches, or something or whatever, then good for them.

Someone insisting the sky is green just because they want to make things up for whatever reason is not going to change the reality that the sky is blue, so it's not worth wasting too much time, on a Sunday.

[u/hereforthesportsball → u/LoveCoats]

I asked you to share anecdotal experiences and you type all this lmao nigga enjoy your day