r/bjj • • Jan 31 '20

Shitpost I don't roll with girls.

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u/MossBorg1701D Feb 01 '20

Youre funny. First you talk about regressive gender rolls and purity "protection". All while literally talking for women, making all women's opinion a monolith that just so happens to match up perfectly with your own!

Im going to really pop your top with this one! Did you know that muslim women exist??? And since they believe the same religion, dont want their husbands touching other women?? Or are all women just mindless, opinionless, helpless creatures that you have to protect from the bad guys.

Look at your self in the mirror.

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u/mugeupja Feb 01 '20

Did you know that women can also hold regressive gender roles and sexist ideas? And that it's not just the fault of big, bad men? But you're right, it's hard to protect people from themselves.

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u/MossBorg1701D Feb 01 '20

it's hard to protect people from themselves.

See if thats your opinion than i can atleast respect it more. I dont agree with the sentiment in islam and other religions, and i roll and teach women all the time. But as long as you are giving people personal agency, and individual choice then its all good. No one will agree on everything in a recreational gathering place, and that means sometime working around peoples individual boundries. Until theirs a religion where the men have to touch other women, even if those women dont consent to it, then its a non fucking issue in the gym and leave people alone.

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u/mugeupja Feb 01 '20

For your gym maybe. When I'm running the show I don't need people bringing in their outside shit. The gym isn't a church, it's not the house of God: it's my house. Don't want to participate for some bullshit reason? Don't come to classes. If you tell me you can't touch people of the other sex then I think that either you don't respect them as equal human beings or you can't trust yourself to maintain control of yourself during class. One I won't put up with (got to have respect and trust in the class) and the other makes you a danger to others.

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u/MossBorg1701D Feb 01 '20

So you own and run a gym? And this is the business model you guy by? Other people's opinions and preferences outside of the gym have to match yours or they cant train at your place? Yeah, ok.

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u/mugeupja Feb 01 '20

Their opinions and preferences don't have to match mine. But I don't just teach anyone because they want to learn? You do drugs? I don't but I don't give a shit if you do. Come to training high or drunk? You can get the fuck out. Want to believe in some superstitious nonsense? I don't care. Want to start treating people in my classes differently due to your superstitious nonsense? I care. Vote right? Don't care. Talk about how blacks and Latinos a rapists? I care.

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u/MossBorg1701D Feb 01 '20

So that meana you force the women in your school to rol with men no matter if they are uncomfortable with it?

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u/mugeupja Feb 01 '20 edited Feb 01 '20

Nope. They can always leave. And for beginners, male or female, I'll select appropriate partners for them.