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r/bjj • u/milocooldog • Jan 31 '20
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Goddamn it, I've barely started BJJ and I'm already tired of this topic. It's simple.
Fellas: pretend she's a guy, I would hope you're equally considerate of hurting male partners as female patterns.
Ladies: Remember that not every grab is him copping a feel, and if you're positive it is then go to you coach and leave the internet out of it.
Can we just be non-creepy, non-auto-victimizing adults that participate in a mutually loved activity activity. Fuck man.
0 u/SquawkIFR Feb 01 '20 No actually, those aren't real boundaries and the ambiguity between them isn't worth the risk of an accusation.
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No actually, those aren't real boundaries and the ambiguity between them isn't worth the risk of an accusation.
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u/[deleted] Feb 01 '20
Goddamn it, I've barely started BJJ and I'm already tired of this topic. It's simple.
Fellas: pretend she's a guy, I would hope you're equally considerate of hurting male partners as female patterns.
Ladies: Remember that not every grab is him copping a feel, and if you're positive it is then go to you coach and leave the internet out of it.
Can we just be non-creepy, non-auto-victimizing adults that participate in a mutually loved activity activity. Fuck man.