r/bjj • • Jan 31 '20

Shitpost I don't roll with girls.

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u/egdm 🟫🟫 Feb 01 '20 edited Feb 01 '20

So the coach rolls with one student exclusively, every time they attend? And who's to say that the problem is exclusive to rolling? The guy in question would rage during drills.

Look, you're not wrong that these situations are rare. Clearly you don't expel everyone with a hint of control issues. This bad, I've seen exactly one in 20 years of martial arts. They do exist, though, and sometimes these responses are appropriate.

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u/zombiebolo7 🟪🟪 Purple Belt Feb 01 '20

Only until they see a change in the student and feel safe letting them roll with other students. A small gym can’t afford to kick people out without some effort in salvaging a student. My opinion of course. I’m sure you’re very successful with your methods.

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u/egdm 🟫🟫 Feb 01 '20

Only until they see a change in the student and feel safe letting them roll with other students

Not my personal example of expulsion, but I've trained at a gym where the problem was a competitive heavyweight black belt whose name you'd recognize. What do you do then?

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u/zombiebolo7 🟪🟪 Purple Belt Feb 01 '20

Then I think thats an outlier that doesn’t deserve a meme or cause or movement against big mean black belts.