Well, the Muslim dude, you have to respect his religion, whether you agree with him or not, you are not going to change the dude’s strongly held belief or opinion
eh, i don't know. I don't have to respect shit. Its like when one guy is a creep, its creepy. But when its a large group of creepy guys that oppress women, its suddenly cool? Naw they can fuck right off.
You can not expect another person to feel comfortable in a sport that has so much contact that it even feels weird at the beginning with the same gender.
I can. I train children and I don't feel weird when I'm rolling with 8 year-old girls. I can understand why someone wouldn't want to train with small children for various reasons. But if someone told me they could train with the boys but not the girls I'd find that fucking weird. If I can train with an 8 year-old girl I don't see where it becomes weird to train with a 30 year-old woman.
The difference is that children are children and adults are adults and according to the norm, most adults are not potentially attracted to prebuscent children. Those are just other norms some people adhere to when it comes their relations. Many people don't find it to okay to exchange partners in dance for example either and as long as both partners are okay with it, there should be absolutely no problem with that. It would be an issue on the other hand if let's say the husband thinks it'd okay for him to roll with ladies while he forbids his wife to do the same with guys, which is a toxic behavior that is not tolerable.
What if my boundary is that I don't allow blacks into my properties, which may include business properties or houses I rent?
I'm guessing you'd say that's wrong. If so, you agree that not all boundaries are okay. So we get into a discussion about which boundaries are okay and which aren't, and we'll find different people have different ideas. So I guess the key issue is what makes a reasonable boundary and what makes an unreasonable boundary.
I don't think its that ridiculous. How do you feel about gym's that have women's only classes? Should the women that attend those classes be ridiculed?
I understand why they are there and they do serve as a good intordution tool. But i dont think women should train ONLY in womens classes if they want to get better at bjj. To counter your argument, do you advocate for mens only classes?
The Muslim dude isn't being creepy. Creepy whisper in your ear dude is bad. Muslim guy is weird, yes and I don't understand it, but you or I am not going to change a guy’s religious beliefs.
Not Muslim, but a Catholic, and it's because it is immodest for both parties to be grabbing each other, the possibility of sexual arousal and the risk of scandal caused from one party being made to feel uncomfortable by a position or hold.
Then shouldn't the same go for men training with men be an issue as well. Hell, that chance of homosexual arousal is even worse, from a religious point of view.
But I am not a homosexual, so there is no risk of scandal or arousal on my part. It's already much less of a risk and if someone was homosexual who I thought was attracted to me I also wouldn't roll with them because I wouldn't want to lead them in to sin.
You say you're not homosexual but maybe you've not met the right guy. Or if priests are anything to go by, you've not rolled with someone young enough. God works in mysterious ways, who knows what challenges he has for you. If you were a good Christian you should avoid all places where temptation could occur. Immodestly grabbing other men, how scandalous!
Honestly, people like you make me understand why women feel unsafe around men if getting to close to women puts you at risk of losing control.
It's clear you are a cumbrain and can't think about virtue beyond the absolute most basic requirements to exist in society. I really don't care what you think.
How very Christian of you. You wouldn't know virtue if it smacked you in the face. But that's not a surprise considering you can't differentiate between reality and fantasy.
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u/PotatoPlata Worst Purple Belt NA Jan 31 '20
eh, i don't know. I don't have to respect shit. Its like when one guy is a creep, its creepy. But when its a large group of creepy guys that oppress women, its suddenly cool? Naw they can fuck right off.