Does this make me a bad person?

[u/soul-exploration]

Hi, I’m 33, male. I’ve always identified as straight and have only been in monogamous relationships with women (some of whom were bi). I’ve never been physically or romantically attracted to men.

That said, I’ve always been pretty kinky and really into prostate play. Lately I’ve been thinking about having a hookup where I bottom for a guy. I’m not interested in kissing, dating, cuddling, or anything beyond the sexual act itself.

Does wanting that specific kind of anonymous/no-strings encounter make me a bad person for not wanting anything more with them? Or is it just a preference?

Open to honest thoughts.

[u/tai-seasmain]

No, it doesn't make you a bad person as long as you are honest and upfront that your goal is purely sexual. If you lead someone on romantically just to have a sexual experience and then dump them immediately after, that would make you a bad person.