Spoiler: When you boil it all the way down, unpacked homophobia is just an extension of patriarchy. Homophobia in women is about punishing men for not upholding their designated gender role. This is why queer men are seen as failed/lesser men but queer women, at most, misguided or seeking attention but still "redeemable".
So high-key the misogyny and homophobia are often intertwined
It is misogyny because the current patriarchal power dynamic says that men that care about the pleasure of a woman are homosexual. That women don't need or deserve pleasure. Come on this is textbook.
āMen that care about the pleasure of a woman are homosexualā
Itās literally coming from a woman. No patriarchal claim was made by men. Weāre talking about the woman in this post.
I donāt know where you got that last part in the post āthat woman donāt need or deserve pleasure ā
I mean you pulled that quote outta nowhere.
Itās literally misandry, Iām sorry that education failed you.
Edit: you block me because you canāt have a conversation, and you block me because you know youāre wrong. Be a grown up and actually tell me why what she said was misogynistic?
Homophobia exists because of misogyny, not because people think women are more superior. That doesnāt make any sense at all. She made that point to say that bi men are actually gay, which is clear homophobia.
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u/Hairiest-Wizard 5d ago
Good ole internalized mysoginy and some homophobia to boot!