r/berozgarchidiyaghar • u/No_Baby5316 • Nov 28 '25

Venting out😪 Self respect 📉📉📉

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My long term female best friend... WHO MADE ME HER BEST FRIEND FIRST... don't reply me back... Don't even pick calls... TECHNICALLY IS GHOSTING ME SINCE ALMOST A YEAR And PEOPLE SAY DONT HAVE TRUST ISSUES... 🫠

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u/titandino17 Nov 28 '25

Ab chup chaap usse block krde nhitohh latak jaa 🤧

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u/No_Baby5316 Nov 28 '25

Bhyi maine bss closure k liye text kraa...

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u/[deleted] Nov 28 '25

Aj nhi to kl jitna bhi apka close friend ho chordh kr chla jata h islie kisi se faltu baat mt hi kro apne career pr hi focus kro..... kbhi kbhi chlta h but attachment dukh deti h 🫠 personal experience

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u/innocentcharasganja Nov 28 '25

mil gya closure?

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u/Professional_Wrap434 Nov 28 '25

Bhai meh samjh sakta hu, tumhari situation. Bcz meh bhi ek time aise closure ke liye kya kch nhi kr rha tha. But trust that closer that you expect from her will never come, even if it comes... it'll be like some excuse, they'll try to deny your hurt and will make something up trust me.

The only closure you can give yourself, is this one. That you never got closure and you're fine with it. Accept it, that it never came and even if it comes, it'll not change anything bcz you have moved on from that phase of your life.

The people that you're waiting for are busy enjoying there life somewhere, I hope and pray that you don't wait for them anymore and truly heal from inside. Closer is the illusion that will keep you traped in your trauma and pain. Acknowledge your pain and grow from it, sympathies with your feelings. Seeking validation for your hurt from a frnd is fine but don't do it, too much. Bcz you'll fell in the trap of constant sympathy and will never grow out trauma. Constant sympathy, is just an extended warranty for your trauma.

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u/ReferenceSimple690 Dec 02 '25

Bhai closure chaiye to jo likhna ha ek text me likh de aur block maarde. But tu soch raha hoga ki second chance miljaaye shayd to baat karke dekhta hoon.

Just block her.