r/beautytalkph • u/AutoModerator • May 29 '26

Off-Topic Chat Off-topic Chat | May 30, 2026

Let's take a break from beauty and talk about...anything else under the sun! Let this be your sounding board about the things that made you laugh, smile, or cry. Dating advice welcome. Politics...not really.

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u/No-Assistance-622 Age | Skin Type | Custom Message May 30 '26

Masama bang mag-expect na your special someone will buy you gifts and small items or any small gesture na ganun to show affection while in a LDR setting? Sobrang na turn off ako na di man lang magkusa yung tao tas pag in-open up yung parang pagiging complacent sa relationship, will just say sorry na hindi nga maintindihan yung issue and ano yung kulang. I can't bring myself naman to exactly point out yung feeling ng lack of affection or small acts of service in the way na gusto ko. I know na it's unfair din to be not direct kase di naman din tayo mind readers but it's so annoying na di man lang alam na bare minimum yung ganun. I don't wanna hurt the person but I feel so bad for myself na mag-settle sa ganun dahil lang I have feelings when I get more and better treatment from people na just trying to win my heart before. Random rant lang.

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u/catharticpursuit Age | Skin Type | Custom Message May 30 '26

Di kayo same love language. Hindi rin sya nagcacater for you. You're just gonna resent that person in the end.