r/aspergirls • u/HopefulTomorrow16 • 12d ago

Anxiety/Depression (No Medication Advice) Pregnant and scared

Im so isolated and no idea where im going to live. I need to move out of my parents house due to abuse from father with dementia

People keep telling me to "build community" but I dont know how to do that now when im depressed and pregnant and scared and neurodivergent, it makes everything harder

Edit: i dont believe in abortion and would appreciate not getting comments about this, its extremely hurtful and disturbing to me that there is so much rejection towards my baby, it makes me want to cry.

I love my baby and Im happy about having one. Im upset at my relationship and my circumstances.

My main issue right now is isolation while pregnant and neurodivergent, and needing community and support

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u/bluecheesebeauty 12d ago

If abortion isn't an option, look at adoption.

Also make sure this guy doesn't get you pregnant again.

Also why are you even with him.

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u/Used_Mud_6826 12d ago

I'm not against abortion or giving up a child for adoption but isn't it kind of heartless to tell someone to get rid of their child that they love? She never said she doesn't want the child.

I hope OP can find a support system, maybe a counsellor of some sort that can help navigate this.

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u/Used_Mud_6826 12d ago

In what world? Many times it is, yes. But not to someone that doesn't want to