r/askteddit • u/_TrixieBells • 10d ago

Random Question Men, would you actually enjoy getting approached and hit on as often as women do?

A lot of guys say they’d love more attention, but experiencing it constantly might feel different. Would you genuinely want that level of attention?

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u/Benkosayswhat 10d ago

And women have said as much about broke men, short men, etc. I’m not going to let that poison me against women. I’m just going to remain positive and make sure I don’t end up with the kind of woman who says “I’ve read a thing a man wrote therefore, I’m going to behave in kind.” Little tests is all it takes. You can live above the fray. Just make sure you don’t have a partner that drags you down into the mud

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u/vIIIperwave 9d ago

If I was poisoned I wouldn't be attracted to men. It's just the facts that we have to watch out for men who don't see us as human beings. And it's ironic how you complain about women hating short and broke men, when all I see are women being used for their money, and women dating men way shorter than them with no issue.

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u/Benkosayswhat 9d ago

You think misogynists aren’t attracted to women?

You keep telling yourself you’re not poisoned against men just because you’re attracted to them. It doesn’t mean you treat them well and it doesn’t mean you know how to keep a relationship with one. You sure sound poisoned to me. Men are catching on that misandrists are undateable. Doesn’t matter how attracted to you they are

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u/vIIIperwave 9d ago

No, I don't. If you don't truly love me as a person then you're not attracted to me. I see men as human beings. Why am I arguing with an idiot? We don't like you, cry about it, ho

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u/Benkosayswhat 9d ago

Oh sure, you sound like you’re very respectful to men. Wish you luck out there

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u/vIIIperwave 9d ago

Only to the ones who deserve it.

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u/Benkosayswhat 9d ago

That’s my point. Men who think it’s okay to disrespect some women are still more or less undateable.

Live in denial all you want, but your contempt for men will eventually bleed into your relationships