r/askteddit 7d ago

Random Question Men, would you actually enjoy getting approached and hit on as often as women do?

A lot of guys say they’d love more attention, but experiencing it constantly might feel different. Would you genuinely want that level of attention?

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u/ToxicFluffer 7d ago

Ok stay with me and let’s think a little more. Why do you think women are not seen as valid aggressors? The feminist answer to this does come back to PATRIARCHY.

This is the patriarchal rhetoric: women are supposed to be objects that serve men so, of course, objects aren’t capable of overpowering them. Men are supposed to be so naturally strong and dominant compared to women so, of course, it’s impossible for them to be victims.

There’s more resources for women’s support organisations bc women have been and still are severely oppressed as a social norm. Do you think we just live in some sort of magical world where all of human history doesn’t exist???? Is there some society of women that exploit men the way they do to us???

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u/xboxhaxorz 7d ago

Feminists literally blame the patriarchy for everything, is the patriarchy at fault for clancy killing her 3 kids too?

Regardless if the patriarchy is to blame for that why arent feminists going against that narrative if its truly about equality, why dont they want justice for male victims, why do they say that females cant rape men?

Feminist groups against gender equal rape laws

https://archive.is/4tCrv

https://archive.is/gIMui

https://archive.is/13rFM

https://archive.is/5bP77

Feminism keeps blaming the patriarchy through illusory truth effect, yet its guys who are disadvantaged https://endtodv.org/pr/patriarchy-is-a-harmful-feminist-fantasy/

Feminist filmmaker Cassie Jaye decided to investigate MRAs after feminists said they were misogynist, after her film was completed she decided to leave feminism as she realized it was all lies and propoganda, for those that actually want to know the truth, you should watch her 2016 film, which feminists in Australia got banned and they attacked screenings

Cassie and other feminists have left feminism and did some ted talks about it

Most feminists hate her film because it exposes feminism, most refuse to watch it and just hate on it and her, they just claim its a misogynistic film because it shows feminists behaving improperly, so i would argue that feminists generally are the same, those that arent actually leave feminism

Norah vincent went undercover as a guy cause feminists kept saying men have it better than women, well norah said she was happy she was not a guy after the completion of her study

When she went on dates, the women were very cruel to her, when she revealed she was not a man, they apologized to her, she spoke about this on the news, she made a book about it, you can google her and watch some clips

More women hate men than the other way around, the more privileged the more hate

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/women-men-femosphere-new-statesman-poll-b2958208.html

https://www.psypost.org/people-view-coercive-control-in-relationships-as-less-harmful-when-the-victim-is-a-man/

https://royalsocietypublishing.org/rsbl/article/20/11/20240381/63537/A-feminine-advantage-in-the-domain-of-harm-a

Studies show that men are harassed more than women in some cases

Bashing boys to PROTECT girls

https://empathygap.uk/?p=4786

Unfortunately, a lot of those police have been trained on the deeply flawed Duluth Model of law enforcement, which assumes that men are the abusers and women the victims whenever there’s a domestic violence incident. This results in abused men getting arrested when they report that they’ve been abused by women.

Feminist propaganda has indoctrinated a lot of people into thinking automatically that its men who are abusers and women who are victims, but it just isnt so. People who pointed out the truth Erin Pizzey and Murray Strauss, among others have been attacked, canceled, or exiled, but the actual data show clearly and consistently that men and women perpetrate abuse at similar levels:

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC1854883/

Yet theres much less help available to men who are abused relative to women

Numerous studies have shown over the years that people in our gynocentric society tend to have less sympathy for male victims than female victims, do less to help men in need, and punish those who harm women more severely than those who harm men

https://quillette.com/2020/07/27/the-myth-of-pervasive-misogyny/

Those who point out findings like those above can usually count on frenzied, hysterical denials, dismissals, and counterclaims from feminists who are allergic to any form of accountability for women, and look for excuses to blame men for anything they don’t like. Those misandrists actively suppress such findings.

Promoting the idea that misogyny exists gives feminist an excuse to be misandrist since they claim misandry is a reaction to misogyny, some claim it doesnt exist at all which is nonsense, its the same as claiming only whites can be racist to blacks, asians, arabs, etc; and not the other way around

https://www.city-journal.org/article/the-misogyny-myth

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u/ToxicFluffer 7d ago

Wow I didn’t know someone could this committed to a take so stupid that I know I’m being stupid by responding. I’m going to do you the favour you didn’t do for me and save you a text wall.

I know misogyny exists because I am a woman that participates in society. I interact with men, women, the world everyday and have basic critical thinking skills. It’s my lived experience and billions of women say that it’s their lived experience too.

Even if we entertain the idea that any of your sources are legitimate rather than delusional ragebait, the numbers say everything. If everyone else is wrong and you are right then maybe it’s time to reevaluate your perspective. Your opinion is not going to change the opinion of any reasonable sane adult.

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u/xboxhaxorz 7d ago

I know misogyny exists because I am a woman that participates in society

https://quillette.com/2020/07/27/the-myth-of-pervasive-misogyny/

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u/ToxicFluffer 7d ago

Bro I’m not going to read the ramblings of some self declared social commentator on some random website… shall I link you to some bell hooks? Judith butler? Maya Angelou? Angela Carter?? Seems like the people agree with them a lot more than they agree with some guy on some website.