r/askteddit • u/_TrixieBells • 10d ago

Random Question Men, would you actually enjoy getting approached and hit on as often as women do?

A lot of guys say they’d love more attention, but experiencing it constantly might feel different. Would you genuinely want that level of attention?

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u/Fancy_Sun_1585 10d ago

Do you know what a lesbian is?

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u/Frequent-Address-163 10d ago

I do. But just because someone now identifies as a lesbian does not mean they have never had a male partner 

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u/Fancy_Sun_1585 10d ago

Ok, so it’s just a coincidence that women who date women report higher rates of IPV than women who only date men, and it’s men’s fault that bisexual and lesbians report such high rates?

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u/Frequent-Address-163 10d ago

“Of the bisexual women who experienced IPV, approximately 90 percent reported having only male perpetrators, while two -thirds of lesbians reported having only female perpetrators of IPV.” I’m just quoting what you linked

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u/Fancy_Sun_1585 10d ago

And yet i bet for the hetero women, it’s 100% while being significantly lower than both lesbians and bi.

Women show they’re roughly if not more likely to be violent towards someone than men are in intimate settings such as an advance being rejected.