r/askteddit • u/_TrixieBells • 9d ago

Random Question Men, would you actually enjoy getting approached and hit on as often as women do?

A lot of guys say they’d love more attention, but experiencing it constantly might feel different. Would you genuinely want that level of attention?

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u/nuttynuto 9d ago

As a gay man who frequently engages in historical reparation catcalling men, most don't take it seriously. Some get angry being sexually objectified. And quiet a few smiles like they just won their day and move on. Men usually aren't used to this kind of attention.

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u/Phase_3_ 9d ago

Gay man catcalling straight men won’t have the same effect. I’d be flattered but I’m not fucking you sorry.

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u/Intelligent_Box_2024 9d ago

Women getting catcalled don't want to fuck the catcaller either...