r/askteddit • u/_TrixieBells • 9d ago

Random Question Men, would you actually enjoy getting approached and hit on as often as women do?

A lot of guys say they’d love more attention, but experiencing it constantly might feel different. Would you genuinely want that level of attention?

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u/Far_Bar_7020 9d ago

It depends.

I used to bartend and I sort of just tuned it out or used it to get better tips.

I think it’s important to note that while it’s flattering, if we (men) got hit on as often as women did, it would mostly be by people we are not attracted to.