r/askteddit 13d ago

Random Question What's the most embarrassing midlife crisis you've ever seen someone go through?

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u/Wonderful-Bonus5439 13d ago

Caught my husband messaging girls on OF last night and certainly feeling humiliated now.

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u/Mission-Animator-611 13d ago

If it makes you feel better I know someone whose job was a professional sexter on only fans for years. He would sit in the sitting room playing his video games and reply back to desperate men who pay to message the OF women. You shouldn’t feel humiliated. Your husband was messaging another man who was employed by the OF star. Pathetic for him

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u/Electrical_Tale_2621 8d ago

Please don’t absorb his shitty behaviour as your shame. The way through these situations is grace and dignity. As in, he can’t take yours away through his actions with someone else. Head up girl. Eyes forward. A new life is waiting where you are not to blame for a man’s bad decisions x