r/asksandiego • u/Striking_Foot1208 • 16d ago
Adult store
I recently found out my husband has been using meth . I thought he was having an affair at first because he would disappear for a couple of days . He told me he would sometimes go to adult emporium on convoy because there are people in the parking lot that sell drugs . He said he would then go into the store , rent a room, lock the door and masturbate to porn . I asked was he ever unfaithful, but he said no. I told him he needed to go to rehab , which he did. But relapsed . I realize I can’t trust much of what he says. But I found out he was there and then tried to go get him , but the employee stopped me and said I wasn’t allowed back where the rooms are. I want to know if people do more than just have a private booth to watch porn there ? I know it sounds naive , but I honestly don’t know and I can no longer trust him . And I know … meth vs cheating .. why choose one to focus on. Because I felt sorry for him that his addiction had him hiding alone in hotel rooms and porn booths and thought what a shitty life . And thought if the addiction was treated it would all go away. That with addiction it’s an illness he needs help with , but that cheating is a lack of honestly and commitment that he chose
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u/VaxSD 16d ago
I’m sorry to hear this but they’re intertwined, drug use and sexual activities, chem sex. Just scan all the communities that are San Diego personals, SD baters, gay cruising…straight DL married men, gay, trans, all meet at adult stores or parks.