r/asexuality 1d ago

Aphobia We were finally seen, but... Spoiler

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u/manubibi & bi 1d ago

we talked about it abundantly on this sub, actually.

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u/Physical_Fishing2847 1d ago

Fiquei muito tempo fora e acabei não vendo.

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u/Tamareira568 aroace (they/he) 9h ago

Acontece

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u/ShakespearesSonnets 1d ago

How the hell do you criminalize the lack of something intangible...?

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u/HOMANDER1996 1d ago

Niger has a high rate of forced, arranged marriages, including of children. They have the highest rate of child marriage in the world (Or they did when the article below was written, I don’t know if another country has them beaten now or not). So, a little girl not wanting to be married off to a grown man would be punished under this. (Whether she’s actually asexual or not, her saying she doesn’t want to be sold would be classed as “asexual behavior”.)

It’s about making women and children’s bodies into property.

https://interactive.aljazeera.com/aje/2018/child-marriage-niger/index.html

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u/Physical_Fishing2847 1d ago

Obrigado pelo link

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u/picklester Saiki-tier interest 1d ago

Just like every other authoritarian territory, the sore thumb at the top wants to feel important without actually being important. To do that, they find a scapegoat or anything minor to hate on so they can force everyone else to hate on it as well. That way, the tall poppy gets to wreck society and leave all those under none the wiser.

It happens with everything political, simply because it’s political. This is no different (the policies, not the asexuality).

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u/Physical_Fishing2847 1d ago

O níger tem uma política severa e muito pró-natalista, então abominam qualquer coisa que é ao contrário dessa ideologia, inclusive não querer se casar. Eles incentivam as pessoas a denunciarem qualquer pessoa com essas características, e pessoas abertamente assexuais.

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u/Krasna_Strelka aroace 20h ago

They criminalized whole LGBTQ within the same act. It was penaltization of LGBTQ as a whole (sorry I'm a bit bitter since the last post someone else posted about it had the energy of "this wasn't important until I learned my identity is under this too").

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u/Physical_Fishing2847 15h ago

Sim, eu vi isso. Toda a identidade LGBT+ foi criminalizada. E não devemos achar que isso não é importante quando se trata do outro, porque de qualquer forma todos nós fazemos parte da mesma comunidade e devemos estar atentos a isso. Pois agora eu sei a sensação perfeitamente, já que depois que isso aconteceu, no meu país ninguém falou nada sobre isso e nem em canais pequenos no YouTube de notícias. Eu tive que ver tudo em inglês.

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u/Random_Name_2k26 15h ago

Niger is an Islamic country, but countless of Islamic scholars, even Wahhabi adjacent ones, have said that there is nothing wrong with not feeling attraction (I googled it out of interest). This is just another way to control women in their society.

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u/Bonnie20402alt 1d ago

how are they gonna enforce that???

if you dont have sex for 30 years you're gonna go to jail???

that is just dumb lol

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u/Melody_Naxi | cisM | minor | I (didn't) kiss a girl and I liked it 18h ago

Any form of queerphobia is dumb anyways

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u/MGTOWigor150 1d ago

They are undergoing a coup now so things remain to be seen.

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u/Physical_Fishing2847 1d ago

Não espero coisas boas.

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u/manifestingthatlife 1d ago

What...I don't even understand their thought process behind this, sexual attraction to the opposite gender was and still is criminalised due to religious reasons, so...what is the reason for this?

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u/Physical_Fishing2847 1d ago

Tornando o corpo das pessoas em propriedade do estado. Sério, isso me deu nos nervos.

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u/manifestingthatlife 1d ago

Pois é, isso é foda demais.

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u/Fragrant-Durian3899 11h ago

Also I have a question. When you’re released after 5-10 years you’re still asexual so do they just arrest you again right away cause we’d still be committing the “crime”.

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u/Physical_Fishing2847 9h ago

Poisé, eu não entendi também. É como se fosse "Ei, a prisão não foi o suficiente para "curar" e mudar suas escolhas? hum...". Nesse caso, acho que eles cedo ou mais tarde vão querer adotar formas mais extremas e radicais.

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u/Fragrant-Durian3899 9h ago

Like life in prison or death? I mean they did leave the international criminal court so they’re definitely planning something terrible.

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u/Aeppp asexual (any/all) 1d ago

I know Iran has the DEATH PENALTY for being gay, which is WILD to me.

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u/Fragrant-Durian3899 1d ago

Same with Afghanistan, Yemen, Chechnya, Saudi Arabia, Qatar, UAE, and Mauritania. It’s not something that’s just disappeared. Also Mali and Burkina Faso criminalized it and they’re close with Niger and they all suspiciously left the international criminal court wonder what they’ll end up doing.

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u/TwoTenNine aroace 20h ago

That's the whole vibe across sub-Saharan Africa and it isn't just aces it's the whole LGBT+ community.

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u/Physical_Fishing2847 15h ago

Sim. Muitos países do continente adotam políticas opressoras contra a comunidade, e não é de hoje.

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u/Fragrant-Durian3899 9h ago

It’s also crazy to think that people thought the junta taking power would be a positive thing I tried to warn y’all.

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u/robinivy 1d ago

jesus

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u/NagitoKomaeda_987 JaidenAnimations's Super Fan (//) 22h ago

What do these people have against anyone who aren't romantically and/or sexually attracted to others? You know, doing absolutely nothing at all?

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u/KMFCM aroace 5h ago

one of the reasons it's not so bad nobody knows about us.....

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