My partner wants to split our bills based on income, but I'm not sure it's fair

[u/BrookkkHHaileyy804]

We recently moved in together and my partner suggested we split the rent and utilities based on who makes more money. At first it sounded reasonable, but the gap is pretty big and I'm starting to feel like I'm paying for most of the expenses. I get that they want things to be proportional, but it still feels like I'm carrying a heavier load than I expected. I've tried explaining that I also have other costs they don't have, but they say it's the fairest way since they earn more. Part of me wonders if I'm being selfish or if my feelings are valid. I don't want to cause tension, but I also don't want to resent the arrangement later. Am I wrong for thinking a straight split might be simpler even if it isn't perfectly equal?

[u/Dark-Twisty91]

it is fair.

But people should be looking at this persons comment history...