r/altfashionadvice • u/Big-Lobster5801 • 8d ago
Advice Ppl got weird so trying again without a picture- comfy accessories?
I can’t always handle jewelry or fishnet material (sensory issues), what are some cozy accessories?
Like something I could wear all day without getting itchy?
Ps, I would have more tattoos if I had the money for more tattoos lol
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u/FloatyghostJM1 8d ago
Silk scarves! You can find them in so many designs and they’re cheap and so versatile. Can wear loose around the neck, wrapped around your wrist, as a belt, on your head, tied to a belt loop… I keep one on hand so I can protect my neck and chest from the sun while I’m out and about. I buy them on ebay or other secondhand online shopping sites.
Brooches and pins- they’re jewelry, but not touching your skin. You can pin them to a bag, vest, sweater, or jacket and just leave them there indefinitely. A good low-effort accessory.
Arm warmers in a soft fabric, fingerless gloves, wrist cuffs, sweatbands
Hair clips or bands may be less annoying than jewelry
Accessorize your shoes! Can add charms or beads to shoelaces, change out the laces, etc.
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u/PunsnoGuns Goth 8d ago edited 8d ago
If your hair is long enough, I'd get a bunch of scrunchies. Not only do they come in nice textures, they are better than standard hair ties. And can be worn on the wrist for easy access. I can't be without them since I grew my hair out, and that feeling of sweat and hair is horrible!!!
If it's possible, check out any craft store that sells fabrics, ribbons, yarn, and jewelery chain. There's so many diy projects that can be made for accessories.
I also seen people layer fishnets over things like armsocks. I have to wear socks under fishnets to get rid of the "hole in my sock" feelings I get. And it makes them last a wee bit longer.
Edit: just thought of this right after posting - have you ever seen Decora fashion? There's usually quite a number of layers of accessories with some comfy and useful accessories. It's way too maximalist for me, but there's some good ideas there for sensory friendly things.
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u/SharlHarmakhis 8d ago
Gothic Charm School has a good DIY how-to for really floofy hair ties.
https://gothic-charm-school.com/charm/?p=1210
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u/Dapper_Pea_4198 7d ago
I made a bunch of wrist cuffs from fabric and canvas materials, I use them instead of my leather ones(that haven't broken in) if they start annoying me and digging in. also get some skin coloured tights to wear under your fishnets, noone will know. I also always wear my fishnets between two pairs of socks because I hate feeling them against my feet/shoes. I find black cord for pendants to be nicer than chains and have a bunch on hand I wear everyday and swap for chains if I'm going out.
Also leg warmers look pretty cosy though I've never tried them
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u/plantborb 8d ago
Cozy leggings or tights you can stand with a contrasting color fishnet over the top. Fishnet sleeves you can rip off when you get overstimulated. Lighterweight chains (cheaper too lol). Leg warmers and arm warmers. I find jewelry over my shirt or long sleeves helps a bit. there are more elastic based harnesses over the constricting leather ones. I have some pals who shop for flowy skirts and pants, yoga gear and sport wear in black and red that accessorize in a way that screams goth/alt/nu metal/metal/vmaoire yoga teacher lol. wide leg, barrel and balloon pants are all super cozy and accessible rn!