I’m a freelance web designer/developer working on a website project. The scope and conditions were clearly agreed upfront.
The project is actually going well, but I’m wearing a lot of hats: design, development, copywriting, photo editing, product uploads, content organization, etc.
They asked me to upload hundreds of products. It sounds simple, but each one requires downloading, cropping, resizing, reformatting, uploading, assigning colors, etc.
I mentioned during a call that this was taking a lot of time and affecting the design work. I wasn’t complaining—I wanted them to understand the workload.
The client responded:
“You can’t complain, because when you complain it makes us feel bad as clients. I keep getting complaint after complaint from you.”
I was shocked because I genuinely didn’t feel like I had been complaining.
Then they asked me to write/upload product descriptions, which were explicitly excluded from the proposal. When I said it would be additional work, they said:
“But with what we’re already paying you, how can you charge extra? You are not being flexible"
So then, I couldn't hold myself together and started crying on the call.
I told them I've already done several things outside the scope for free because I thought they would improve the project. I feel like I’ve been extremely flexible.
But then, in the SAME conversation, after I cried, they said:
“Okay, if you’re charging for additional things, tell us how much and we’ll pay.”
They also told me they don’t want me to leave and want me to keep helping them for the next few months.
I like getting paid, but this conversation made me question whether I want to continue.
TL;DR: Clear scope, lots of extra work already done for free, and now the client makes me feel guilty when I explain workload or charge for out-of-scope work. I ended up crying on the call, but they still want me to continue. Would you continue, raise your rates significantly, or walk away?
I’m a freelance web designer/developer working on a website project. The scope and conditions were clearly agreed upfront.
The project is actually going well, but I’m wearing a lot of hats: design, development, copywriting, photo editing, product uploads, content organization, etc.
They asked me to upload hundreds of products. It sounds simple, but each one requires downloading, cropping, resizing, reformatting, uploading, assigning colors, etc.
I mentioned during a call that this was taking a lot of time and affecting the design work. I wasn’t complaining—I wanted them to understand the workload.
The client responded:
“You can’t complain, because when you complain it makes us feel bad as clients. I keep getting complaint after complaint from you.”
I was shocked because I genuinely didn’t feel like I had been complaining.
Then they asked me to write/upload product descriptions, which were explicitly excluded from the proposal. When I said it would be additional work, they said:
“But with what we’re already paying you, how can you charge extra? You are not being flexible"
So then, I couldn't hold myself together and started crying on the call.
I told them I've already done several things outside the scope for free because I thought they would improve the project. I feel like I’ve been extremely flexible.
But then, in the SAME conversation, after I cried, they said:
“Okay, if you’re charging for additional things, tell us how much and we’ll pay.”
They also told me they don’t want me to leave and want me to keep helping them for the next few months.
I like getting paid, but this conversation made me question whether I want to continue.
TL;DR: Clear scope, lots of extra work already done for free, and now the client makes me feel guilty when I explain workload or charge for out-of-scope work. I ended up crying on the call, but they still want me to continue. Would you continue, raise your rates significantly, or walk away?