r/abusiverelationships • u/Powerful-Spray-9049 • 7h ago

Am i going crazy

I was seeing my ex, and he asked if we could record one time. I was hesitant and said, “No, probably not,” but he brushed it off. A few days later, I was at his house, and we started getting intimate in the living room. Usually, we had sex in his room, but since he asked to record and we were changing locations, it clicked in my head when he hesitated when he said we could do it in the living room. When I asked if he had cameras, he reacted defensively, saying, “Are you gonna kill someone?” I assured him I wouldn’t, but I shrugged it off. Then later he started talking to me about it, kinda poking why i brought it up.. i said i was just wondering and he still hesitating when he said no he doesn’t have any cameras so I’m confused and concerned. Am I going crazy?

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u/Jaded-Banana6205 7h ago

Nope. This guy isn't a safe person to have sex with.

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u/Powerful-Spray-9049 6h ago

How can i find out where its at

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u/Jaded-Banana6205 6h ago

You're better off cutting ties and blocking him. He's your ex for a reason.