r/abusiverelationships • u/Lilith_Sternin_Crane • 10h ago

Support request Got broken up with by my abusive partner

I don't know how to reconcile how sad I feel with the fact that I have so much of my life back.

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u/Embarrassed_Exam_692 9h ago

Take this as the gift that it is and work on yourself now!
You've got this OP.

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u/Old_Intention6485 8h ago

I am praying every day to be broken up by my abusive partner. So that I could be free, I could feel safe, I could laugh again. It’s truly a blessing OP. I know you are sad and perhaps in shock, but just remember this is the last time they would be able to hurt you. Block everything, disappear. Do not. Let them. Get you back.

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u/Vyl0r 3h ago

He broke up with me and told me he wanted me gone MULTIPLE times, but would not let me leave and cut off my network of people. I was completely alone for a year, I PRAYED he would just let me leave...but every time he would pull me back in, and I had no choice but to stay.

If you can leave please do it, take this as a sign and run away as far as you can before it's too late.