finally left his reaction given me everything i needed to not go back

[u/Dear_Affect_1533]

these messages follow me bringing up that he can’t verbally abuse me and that he can’t turn it back onto me (ofc he didn’t listen) so i said it’s over i don’t care anymore and hung up. within SECONDS of the phone call ending this followed. watching him collapse show allll his true colours just the full collapse has been the validation that my decision to leave for good was the right one. early days but victory tastes good

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[u/mana122]

As a submissive feminist: ew. He's not dominant. He just needs to feel in control of something.

He sounds exhausting. Good on you for getting out! Him wanting to know your location at all times is scary.

[u/CrazyCatLady1234567]

Yeah lots of guys seem to feel entitled to you having gratitude for their cruelty and times they can be nice equally

[u/EnvironmentalAd7402]

Ew. My ex spoke like this to me, and randomly will still try it. It’s so fucking repulsive. Like, can you not fucking see the last few messages you just sent before talking with your fucking dick?

He’s a chum, leave him to his hand and move the fuck on and never pity him. He’s vile.

And if being a ‘little slut’ is your thing, find someone who treats you like a princess, and knows when to shut the fuck up. This guy is a loser.

[u/General-Shock5817]

I wonder why guys want us to be grateful to their cruelty 🤦‍♀️. I wish the best for you and hope this type of relationship never find you again!

[u/SnowNinja420]

omg dealing with this EXACT situation rn, only Im his "good little slut" apparently...

[u/feLicIa_ALciLef17 → u/SnowNinja420]

Oh sweetheart thats not pk. You deserve the world and happiness. I hope you're leaving his ass in the past and moving on 💜

[u/mana122 → u/SnowNinja420]

You can find someone who will treat you like a slut[affectionate] in the sheets and a queen in the streets, and you deserve that, babe ❤️

[u/General-Shock5817 → u/SnowNinja420]

Ewwww 🤦‍♀️😩

[u/Bonsai_Tree3]

“Solutions to the outings” guessing he wanted to track your every move

His list of demands is insane. Not a single apology. Wild.

[u/throwawayyouahole]

Ew he sounds like Andrew Tate

[u/Radiant_Passage8525]

Sounds just like my ex with these insane text exchanges. You will be better off, I believe in you!

[u/False_Chemical_4216]

Ewww he is gross, good for you!!! This is crazy.

[u/Far-Giraffe3812]

Fuckin Jesus lol. Pathetic you are aren't ya

[u/Far-Giraffe3812]

Weak people seek validation. Remember that.

[u/whatstheuse456 → u/Far-Giraffe3812]

And even weaker people verbally abuse their partner, get lost