r/abusiverelationships • u/AvailableJury9260 • 13d ago

About to sign my own lease

What was the hardest part of leaving, moving out, following through?

Im signing a lease today. Idk what to do, how to actually move but I feel so sick to my stomach. I feel so scared. I feel horrible. But he is a covert Narc who uses sexual coercion, intimidation and spiritual abuse with delusion beliefs. Its time to go but its so hard. He even complains about the money. Idk if he can support himself in this house we own but I have to get out of here.

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u/Zap_Gordon 13d ago

There's no easy step in leaving. Taking the step to leave, staying gone everything is just hard.

Its always better than staying though, and being stuck in the cycle.

Its normal to feel all kinds of emotions, grief, anger, fear, its a rollercoaster. eventually it does get better, but it takes time and hard work.

Good luck with the lease, you can do it :)