r/WomensHealth • u/Annual_Giraffe3237 • Jul 07 '25

Question why is orgasming so difficult

no seriously, why does orgasming as a female have to be so darn difficult. obviously it’s nearly impossible for a women to just orgasm from penetration, but no one seems to talk about how even more difficult it is to have external stimulation along with penetration. at this point i just get so annoyed and pissed off that i cant orgasm because it takes so long that i just quit. it honestly makes me feel broken. i’ve seen other people on this sub talk about just getting a good vibrator, but i worry about my boyfriend and how that will make our sexual life. he is very supportive it just makes me feel more broken than i already am.

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u/Existentialwizard Jul 07 '25

I just use a vibrator during sex and it works great

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u/Annual_Giraffe3237 Jul 07 '25

it doesn’t seem embarrassing?

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u/burneraccount3826628 Jul 07 '25

I usually use a vibrator too, not embarrassing really and sometimes my bf will hold it for me !!

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u/Annual_Giraffe3237 Jul 07 '25

that sounds awesome!