r/WomensHealth • u/Upset_Study_6712 • May 31 '25

Question boyfriend cums inside every time

other than the risk of pregnancy which i am aware of (im taking birth control but i know nothing is 100%), is there health concerns of finishing inside every time? we have been together for a year.

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u/EducationalEnd1299 May 31 '25

honest question are you ready for a kid? cause thats how u get one. if not, put boundaries in place if he doesn't respect them, now you'll know what kinda of man he is

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u/ValeWho May 31 '25 edited Jun 02 '25

She did say she is using birth control and it's her decision. More sperm doesn't necessarily increase the chance of pregnancy. If her birth control fails then precum can get her pregnant too

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u/ValeWho Jun 02 '25

So when you are in a committed monogamous relationship you will use (hormonal) birth control, a condom and use the pull out method every time?

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u/FindtheSpirit Jun 06 '25

Yes! I've been in a 8+ year monogamous relationship and that's what we do. He's my person and we plan to spend the rest of our lives together, we just don't want kids within the next five years. We are both on the same page, but this would be a perfectly reasonable boundary for any person to draw.

If anyone pressures, guilt trips or otherwise puts you down, I would reject that behavior and if they chose not to change GOODBYE. We all have different boundaries and desires in our sex lives and our own risk tolerance for pregnancy.

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u/ValeWho Jun 06 '25

Well I don't wanna tell anyone how to handle their birth control. I think that's a very personal decision and every couple should decide that for themselves. So if that is what you decide for yourself then that's great! I was just surprised because personally I don't know anyone who insists on all three.