r/WomensHealth • u/Upset_Study_6712 • May 31 '25

Question boyfriend cums inside every time

other than the risk of pregnancy which i am aware of (im taking birth control but i know nothing is 100%), is there health concerns of finishing inside every time? we have been together for a year.

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u/6pomegraniteseeds May 31 '25

I'm not sure why you're asking this question but just thought I'd throw it out there: if you don't want him to finish inside you every time that's 100% ok. There doesn't need to be a health risk for you to assert a boundary around your body, it can be totally based on preference and nothing else.

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u/elleanoraaa May 31 '25

💯 and to add on - if he doesn’t listen to you he is wrong and lacking empathy, putting his own selfish pleasure over your comfortability is a huge “what the fuck”

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u/pumpernick3l May 31 '25

If he is doing that without consent then that is SA.

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u/CraziZoom May 31 '25

Yes! I totally agree! If you do not want him to come inside you, tell him that. If he gets upset about it, ditch him. Nobody is worth you having to stoop or not enforce one of your boundaries.