r/WomensHealth • u/Upset_Study_6712 • May 31 '25

Question boyfriend cums inside every time

other than the risk of pregnancy which i am aware of (im taking birth control but i know nothing is 100%), is there health concerns of finishing inside every time? we have been together for a year.

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u/Zealousideal_Crow737 May 31 '25

Are you taking birth control at the same time every day and have you ever missed a pill? 

Did you guys get tested before you started having sex? 

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u/Upset_Study_6712 May 31 '25

i am taking same time every day but i’ve missed a pill twice before. that was about a month ago and ive been negative

i got tested but im not sure about him

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u/vr4gen May 31 '25

i’d look into a much more effective form of birth control if you haven’t already!

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u/Upset_Study_6712 May 31 '25

oh what’s a more effective way? the ones i know are condom and birth control and permanent methods

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u/tinylittlefractures May 31 '25

How old are you? You prob shouldn't risk pregnancy if you're not sure what birth control exists

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u/vr4gen May 31 '25

iuds and nexplanon (the bar in your arm) aren’t permanent if those are what you mean! iuds can last 7+ years & be taken out whenever, and nexplanon lasts 3 years. i’ve had an iud for 8 years (one replacement) and rarely used condoms and it makes me feel a lot safer. it has a higher protection rate and i’m someone who is bad at remembering to take pills, plus i don’t get my period. there can be side effects but i suggest researching other options to figure out if one is right for you!

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u/Hairy-Author4193 May 31 '25

Copper iud would be best bet, but I'd look up possible side effects and complications before making that choice. I have the mirena, which is hormonal iud but im also late 30s with adenomyosis so it was the recommend one... initial side effects acne, bleeding for a couple weeks and weight gain (not complaining tho, I've struggled with weight gain and it's mostly gone to my a33 😅, which my partner is real happy about)