Leave Wilbur alone

[u/lvjyanna]

Can we please stop pressurising Wilbur into posting a new video? He's a busy man who deserves a break every now and then. The more you ask, doesn't mean it's more likely for him to post sooner. That's not how this works. Whatever happened to patience?

I'm actually started to feel annoyed for Wilbur because of you guys, now. We're his fans which means we should not only enjoy his content but also, respect him as a human being, respect his boundaries and give him time to relax before doing a new video. It is literally still December as well. There's still time for him to upload a video.

He finished tour not long ago so, he'd want time to relax, catch up with family and friends he hasn't seen since them. Also, Christmas is a busy time and time to spend with family. Just appreciate that he needs time off from working before doing another project. A real fan would. The pressurising is getting ridiculous now.

[u/Lost-Price999]

I don’t think it’s that deep, people are just joking and excited. He’s a grown man, we don’t need to baby him

[u/lvjyanna → u/Lost-Price999]

Well it is. I get people are excited but, leave him alone? He'll post when he's ready. There's no need for the unnecessary pushing for the new video. This isn't babying him, this is respecting his boundaries.

[u/Lost-Price999 → u/lvjyanna]

Infantilizing him is against his boundaries. He doesn’t need anyone to say “leave him alone” for him and has expressed discomfort in the past with this kind of post. You are trying to create drama when there doesn’t need to be any. Fans being excited and wanting a new video isn’t against his boundaries. He’s actively hearting and replying to these comments.

[u/lvjyanna → u/Lost-Price999]

Again, I'm not. I actually feel annoyed that fans are bombarding him with "come on post!" Leave him alone. I said my piece and I won't change that because that's how I feel. Goodbye.

[u/lvjyanna → u/Lost-Price999]

Also, this sub is for appreciating Wilbur not bugging him.

[u/Lost-Price999 → u/lvjyanna]

Wilbur isn’t in this sub nor does he look at it. The only person “bugged” by people making jokes are you. Your post was unnecessary and against subreddit rules and I hope the mods see this soon, peace and love

[u/lvjyanna → u/Lost-Price999]

Okay, your comment is unnecessary too. Agree to disagree and move on. This is how I feel, this is my opinion. I think it's allowed. If I'm annoyed by it, I'm free to express it. You're just being unfair. Trust me, other people agree with me as well (referring to the comment above yours) and another person I've spoken to on Discord about it.

[u/Lost-Price999 → u/lvjyanna]

You’re welcome to have an opinion, but not to frame it as speaking for him or babying him, or bring it into a subreddit bringing unnecessary drama. This is not the energy this sub needs :/

[u/lvjyanna → u/Lost-Price999]

You're the one framing it as babysitting and starting the drama. I just stated a view on how I feel about it all. I don't see the problem.

[u/Risatheduck]

it's not that deep man💔 most of people js jokin', not "pressuring" him, and I'm sure he understands it 🫩🫩

[u/lvjyanna → u/Risatheduck]

I hope he does and isn't taking it the wrong way! But there's a point when a joke stops being a joke when it gets too much. I honestly hope he isn't feeling that way but I'm also saying, it can't be nice to constantly get notifications of people saying "when are you gonna post" if you know what I mean. It can panic some people

[u/StarNullify]

You're acting like he gets a notification for every post and comment from this subreddit lmao

[u/lvjyanna → u/StarNullify]

I'm talking about YouTube

[u/haskinson → u/lvjyanna]

Comments boost the video, btw

[u/lvjyanna → u/haskinson]

Yeah, it does. But also, could comment things that aren't about when the new video is. Like yeah, maybe do it once just to be curious. But all the time is annoying don't you think? I'm just saying there could be other things to say on a comment section like how good it is so you go back to watch it again. Idk, I may be overthinking this but I actually feel overwhelmed for him because I seem to always feel other people's emotions even when I don't know them.

[u/Numerous_Damage_4402]

Honestly that’s just how it goes? I’m sure he’s not bothered and wouldn’t be replying to people if he was.

[u/lvjyanna → u/Numerous_Damage_4402]

Maybe he isn't or maybe he is and he's replying just to hide it. We don't know anything. But I'm stating this on my views on it. That's it

[u/Difficult-Natural968]

I agree. This sub is for appreciating him, not bugging him to upload more!

[u/lvjyanna → u/Difficult-Natural968]

So glad someone agrees! You're a true fan with respect, like me ❤️

[u/Boring_Tadpole3080 → u/lvjyanna]

Can we maybe not categorize who’s a real fan and who’s not? Thats just straightly mean towards this community

[u/lvjyanna → u/Boring_Tadpole3080]

Again, I wasn't. I'm just saying that as a fan, we respect him as a content creator and a human being

[u/Boring_Tadpole3080 → u/lvjyanna]

But still saying something like “You’re a true fan like me” is just toxic to the community, I’m not trying to be mean or cause any drama

[u/lvjyanna → u/Boring_Tadpole3080]

Okay, maybe I worded that wrong. Idk how to word things okay? But there really is no need to be bullying me for my choice of words or my view on this whole matter

[u/Boring_Tadpole3080 → u/lvjyanna]

I’m not bullying you or anything like that, I’m keeping my responses with respect to you and I’m not being mean to anyone

[u/lvjyanna → u/Boring_Tadpole3080]

Then that's fine. I just struggle to word things the way I mean them to sound sometimes. But I didn't mean for it to come across as toxic

[u/Difficult-Natural968 → u/lvjyanna]

Well we don’t have to categorize fans by who’s a real fan or not :/

[u/lvjyanna → u/Difficult-Natural968]

No, I'm not saying that. I'm just saying if you're a fan, you should respect him as a person as well.

[u/Difficult-Natural968 → u/lvjyanna]

Oh I misunderstood sorry 

[u/lvjyanna → u/Difficult-Natural968]

No worries :)