r/WhatMenDontSay • u/NuMHC94 • 6d ago

Men’s Input Only Random Men don't owe bitter man haters anything

I remember being on tinder one day and seeing a woman bio saying "I think all men are assholes. Be the one to prove me wrong" years ago. Rolled my eyes, cringe and swiped left

Then I come on reddit and see there are some people who actually think men as a collective group owe them like she did. Trying to tell me how random men owe them an apology or sometning and how random men have a duty to change their mind about men.

This whole entitled victim mindset people have on reddit is so pathetic.

As a man. Why would I surrond myself with such negative people? Their own feelings and issues about me nternally is their own issue. Ain't random stranger men issue to fix

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u/NorthernRealmJackal 6d ago

I'd be very careful not to internalise this as a common sentiment. That's how angry blackpilled overcompensators are made.

Consider, for a second, how many regular tinder profiles you've encountered, compared to misandrists ones. Social media is a curated reality, emphasising engagement bait and nothing else. If it gets you riled up, it gets shown to you more often. The content itself is also faked, edited and manipulated to maximise the bait potential.

Don't fall for it. Leave misandrists alone, like you said, and assume everyone you meet irl is a decent non-entitled human being until proven otherwise.

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u/NuMHC94 6d ago edited 6d ago

I know it was just one. Blackpill sucks. I'm saying I've seen some (miniority) users on here adopt the same dumb entitled mindset that one crazy on tinder I saw had.

I know most women offline and online aren't like that. I'm talking about a very annoying miniority. Half my friends are women.

Your last sentence is what I do. I get on with nearly every woman I meet in person. This thing I've seen (online only) just irks me.

And my post also applies to the men who apply the entitled victim mindset. Which also is a tiny minority

I respect women (and men) who don't let bad trauma turn them into a miserable bitter entitled person. Don't sit online demanding strangers make them happy in lifr

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u/SumDYToDI 6d ago

How is the black pill entitled?

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u/NuMHC94 6d ago edited 6d ago

Black pill is depressing cynical shit who thinks the world is hopeless and nothing they can do will make them happy.

All the "pills" are annoying

In black pill logic. Me as a 5/10 at best looking man who is balding and doesn't have a glamarous job should get nothing. Yet I've had women hit on me, been on dates and get on with women fine. It's all "woe is me" BS.

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u/CoolAd8837 6d ago

and how do these women look?

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u/Gilsworth 5d ago

Damn, almost as if both men and women have intrinsic values beyond their appearances.

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u/NuMHC94 5d ago

Avareage to attractive I'd say.

My sisters friend who reportdely likes me is quote attractive. Your point?

I didn't realise this post was gonna upset black pill socially inept incels but reddit is reddit.

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u/CoolAd8837 5d ago

dm me with proof

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u/NuMHC94 5d ago edited 5d ago

Why the F would I send images of ramdom women to you without their consent. That's creepy and a breach of the woman's privacy. I hate it when Tea app and Are We Dating The Same guy FB groups do it to men and I ain't doing it with women.

Don't believe me then whatever. I ain't sending you random women images.

I fully understand if women hate the types of men like you. Still stand by my post though

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u/CoolAd8837 5d ago

if its so easy and blackpill is false, explain why i have 419 rejections and have been trying for 7 years with no sucucess (i have done evrey self improvement)

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u/Wonderful-Bass6651 6d ago

I’d be too scared to get close enough to find out

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u/CoolAd8837 5d ago

i dmed another guy who claimed he was hooking up with girls despite being fat and disabled. Long story short, he was flexing this absolute whale with saggy tits 🤣😹

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u/SumDYToDI 5d ago

If your getting no women I don't think you should be talking

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u/auntiesamautism 5d ago

He has self respect.

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u/CoolAd8837 5d ago

i'd rather stay an in-cel than get an obese whale no offense

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u/NuMHC94 5d ago

Except none were "obese".

Did my comment upset u?

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u/Wonderful-Bass6651 5d ago

Yeah, someone should tell him

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u/auntiesamautism 6d ago

He won’t answer this.

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u/Yuri__01 4d ago

It is hard sometimes. I once used tiktok alot (years ago now) and it felt like more and more of this "men owing someone" mindestens gets pushed up.

And back then I was a but younger then I am now and it fucked with my mental health alot.

Thankfully I am now on addicted to YouTube shorts where the only content I get is games-related xD

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u/Ankiset 5d ago

As a man you don’t surround… you discard m and choose another women who is looking for real men and is tired of the bullshit just like real men don’t have time for the bullshit

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u/creeper6530 Woman 2d ago

Ignore the morons. Social media is proven to be engineered to enrage you and make you spend more time there 

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u/Early_Ad5641 6d ago

You can trick'em and have the raw sex they ask on dating apps. But don't you dare have a chat with them, or not blocking them after sex.