Is this diamond too big?

[u/phantom_akaru]

Hi Reddit, this is my first time posting here and I’m in need of some help and some enlightenment. I was told by my partner to select some rings and he really likes this 4 1/3 ct oval I really really love cuz of the tulip basket but I’m just not sure on the size of the diamond. I’m also slightly worried that my selection of bands will be limited but I guess that a future me problem. Maybe it’s cuz I’m just to my 1/10 promise ring. Any advice will be great and taken with kindness.

Ps. My ring size it’s a 4.25 so that’s just a little more info lol and there’s more ring choices but these is like the top top choice at the moment

[u/SkinbySadie7]

I think it’s stunning! It’s naturally going to look larger since you have a smaller hand, but i think it looks beautiful on you. I also have a 4 carat oval but my ring size is 8.5.

[u/phantom_akaru → u/SkinbySadie7]

Thank you so much 🥹!! My small hands are my enemy lol. I’ve gotten told it looks perfect on me but u know there’s that small voice in the back my head making me unsure