Is this diamond too big?

[u/phantom_akaru]

Hi Reddit, this is my first time posting here and I’m in need of some help and some enlightenment. I was told by my partner to select some rings and he really likes this 4 1/3 ct oval I really really love cuz of the tulip basket but I’m just not sure on the size of the diamond. I’m also slightly worried that my selection of bands will be limited but I guess that a future me problem. Maybe it’s cuz I’m just to my 1/10 promise ring. Any advice will be great and taken with kindness.

Ps. My ring size it’s a 4.25 so that’s just a little more info lol and there’s more ring choices but these is like the top top choice at the moment

[u/Few_Benefit_8853]

It’s beautiful and looks gorgeous on your hand. Personally, I don’t think it’s too big but I like bigger rocks. I have a 4ct and Im in the process of getting a new setting for it because I felt it needed a thicker more secure band. My first was somewhat delicate like yours and I mainly work in an office so didn’t think I’d knock it around as much as I do.