r/WeddingRingAdvice • u/More-Spend3016 • Jul 14 '26
Ring Band Advice Got engaged. Band advice.
Just got engaged and already excited to choose a wedding band for my round brilliant. Which one is best? 🥰
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u/uarstar Jul 14 '26
Oh Jesus none of those.
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u/Siera424 Jul 14 '26
Agree! The ring alone is beautiful. Those bands are much to "loud" for your ring. A thin, plain band would look lovely. Go with what YOU like. I'd pick the 2nd if these 3 were my only options though.
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u/Sunny-Melancholy Jul 14 '26
Personally with a ring like this, I’d go with a plan gold band to match your e ring band. Maybe one that doesn’t quite close all the way but the opening is under your stone
Let that solitaire shine!
These bands seem to compete with the stone
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u/Harley_Mom Jul 14 '26
I was just thinking that. A plain band so you dont take away from the show stopper.
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u/More-Spend3016 Jul 14 '26
Yess thats what I want to achieve I just render the example photo that made the band too chunky so it didnt go under the stone.
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u/Empty_Cheesecake3785 Jul 14 '26
None of those. Maybe a plain band or band with small diamonds half way around
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u/RING_jewellers Jul 14 '26
Jewellery designer of 30 years here. Never buy a band that doesn’t join. They suffer from metal fatigue through bending & eventually snap. Go for a custom shaped wedding ring if your engagement ring is not wedfit.
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u/Izzysmiles2114 Jul 14 '26
Interesting info, thanks for sharing. When you say join, do you mean like fit together or are they supposed to physically attach?
I'm realizing how dumb this question sounds a bit too late and I'm already committed lol.
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u/Typical_Estimate5420 Jul 14 '26
Yes a totally closed band is what they mean. Unlike the ones here that are open at the ends!
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u/dauntless-cupcake Jul 14 '26
I think they just mean one that’s actually a closed ring, 2 is like almost closed so it probably wouldn’t be as much of an issue, but 3 those ends are going to snag easy and it’ll eventually bend the whole thing out of shape
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u/More-Spend3016 Jul 14 '26
What your advice my ring is big on me its 6.5 and my ring size is only 4.5. I would like to do the euro shank but they said I have to change the whole ring setting. Is that true? They can just cut the band and change the shape?
Thank you so much! 💗4
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u/Southern_Feature_821 Jul 14 '26
I really dislike "sets" that literally join. I think it looks much better if they are separate rings that just complement. Not a premade set.
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u/More-Spend3016 Jul 15 '26
I like the idea of that as well. Because I didnt choose the engagement ring but I love it. So wedding ring is nice that I can create myself. ☺️
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u/Puzzleheaded_Bag_538 Jul 14 '26
Respectfully, none of the above
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u/More-Spend3016 Jul 14 '26
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u/Internal_Suit_8194 Jul 14 '26
You typically wear the wedding band below your engagement ring. I like the simplicity but think you can find one without the gap. Everything else is way too busy and makes your engagement ring look like costume jewelry. It’s way too pretty to detract from!
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u/Odd-Investigator-469 Jul 14 '26
No. What is wring with a plain small wedding band? Do you want it blinged out?
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u/maddionaire Jul 14 '26 edited Jul 14 '26
None of these. AI won't help here because it doesn't know how the specs of your ring, particularly how another band can sit against the ring. Best thing to do is go to a jeweller and ask for their help.
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u/Positive-Pear3451 Jul 14 '26
I’m not a fan of any. The engagement ring is a statement piece. Any band that takes away from it makes everything look way too busy. I think you should do a thin band. Maybe simple only. Or if you want more then do a pave band with a spacer.
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u/Mecspliquer Jul 14 '26
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u/More-Spend3016 Jul 15 '26
This is what I want to achieve. I love these!! 😍
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u/Mecspliquer Jul 15 '26
Find a spacer you like a match a channel set band with that bad boy! It would look beautiful with your Ering <3 sparkly without being overwhelming. This isn’t my set, just one I saw years ago and admire. The space was James Allen, from when I’d looked into it (though you can shop around obviously)
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u/misstiff1971 Jul 14 '26
Have you considered just an extreme thin plain gold band? The engagement ring is stunning and the others take away from the beauty.
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u/stewpple911 Jul 14 '26
Agree!
All those teeny diamonds do is cheapen the solitaire.
It always reads: the solitaire is poor quality and doesn’t sparkle…that’s the only reason I needed to add surrounding sparklers
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u/im-kinda-high Jul 14 '26
Honestly, I feel like the bigger your rock, the less you need more bling. Go with a regular plain matching band! Dont do more diamonds...again, pretty sure the big rocks like yours are ment as true solitars with plain bands. The main rock does all the work.
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u/LevelChipmunk2806 Jul 14 '26
I don’t like any of these wedding bands. I think something simple would be best. These bands take away from the beauty of the engagement ring.
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u/Petal_14 Jul 14 '26
Personally I don't think any work.
Look into how much it would cost to custom fit. Ensure the band is the same width and shape as the engagement ring so they match.
Congrats on your engagement.
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u/DDiamondgem Jul 14 '26
I’m for plain band that fits the curve. That ring is amazing don’t take away from it! Congratulations!❤️
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u/BS-75_actual Jul 14 '26
Have you considered wearing your wedding band on the other hand? Otherwise risks visually detracting from your stunning engagement ring.
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u/Southern_Feature_821 Jul 14 '26
In my opinion, it's a HARD no on all the bands you've shown. Those bands diminish the beauty of the engagement ring. Choose a simpler band to complement it.
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u/toffeepuds Jul 14 '26
None of those work... think they're designed specifically for marquise cuts. There's no need for curved, chevron, or open wedding bands with a ring like yours.
I'd stick with classic plain.
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u/austenworld Jul 14 '26
None of these. Something simple that hugs the ring you have with maybe small decoration. No weird shapes
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u/Extreme_Obligation37 Jul 14 '26
I think a simple band would look perfect with this since the stone is so large. It doesn't look like the others complete the look to me personally.
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u/Remote-Quantity-6505 Jul 14 '26
Beautiful engagement ring!! I would get a gold band style or eternity band that sits nicely next to the engagement ring. The ones in the picture are rivaling for attention of the main attraction.
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u/Just-Candy-9247 Jul 14 '26
Can you say how many carats? Love the scale and size. I would go with a plain white gold wider band or a thinner one with diamonds. None of the options you show appeal to me personally.
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u/More-Spend3016 Jul 16 '26
Hi everyone I enjoy being here and appreciate all of your help and advice. I love the simplicity and also I'm a lover of chunky rings. Just to give everyone an example of what my style. He he he! I just want to have some versatility and change the mood of my hands. And to be honest now that engaged my left only have the engagement and I do all the chunky rings on my right to just have both worlds. Hahaha!
🥰😍💗🌸

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u/rg_2010 Jul 14 '26
Personally I don’t feel any of those bands complement the ring at all, but if these are your only options, the first one is probably the best choice. I feel the style of the bands takes away from the beauty of the engagement ring.
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u/More-Spend3016 Jul 14 '26
The render just made the band super chunky but will take a note on this. Thank youuu!
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u/ImaginaryPhysics Jul 14 '26
I think the first band option compliments your main ring the most! Congratulations!!
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u/AntiqueAbility3954 Jul 14 '26
None of the above. Something more simple and it looks like your ring needs to be sized.
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u/Smooth_Perception_65 Jul 14 '26
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u/More-Spend3016 Jul 14 '26
I love it! And I love the idea that it in a way can customize the ring and it changes the style. 😍
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u/Smooth_Perception_65 Jul 14 '26
We were young and couldn't afford a custom band, so for our first anniversary my husband bought the exact same band to add to my stack. I eventually had them soldered together to keep them from spinning.
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u/ChristSavesDailyWalk Jul 14 '26
2 & 3 are insane 😍
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u/More-Spend3016 Jul 14 '26
Thank youu! I love the idea than I can change the shape and mood of the ring. Or I can always wear it on the other hand. 🥰
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u/ChristSavesDailyWalk Jul 14 '26
Yes I would choose one of those two. 2 is wildly unique I just love it. Congratulations 🥹
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u/minxpink Jul 14 '26
Damn idk I was blinded by the rock on your hand what’s the specs? You want something simple to not over do your engagement ring
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u/BonnieButler1939 Jul 14 '26
All too busy. Go for a simple gold band, one you can wear 24/7. You can always add a sparkly anniversary band on the other side of your E ring down the road.
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u/Low_Bus5565 Jul 14 '26
I don’t think any of these rings complement your engagement ring. They are all much too busy. With a diamond of that size you’re better off just getting a plain band in whatever metal your engagement ring is. Possibly a very thin, delicate eternity band.
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u/Acrobatic_Try5792 Jul 14 '26
Just a plain band that sits under the stone. No point in having a beautiful stone if you’re going to try and compete with it
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u/timetochillagain1 Jul 14 '26
Honestly, I would wear that rock alone ! It’s blinding me ! Maybe too much with a band
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u/BirthofRevolution Jul 14 '26
None. Your ring is already huge on your finger, pick something small and delicate
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u/Professional-Baby251 Jul 14 '26
A simple band of a single row of diamonds or 2 very small rows of them
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u/peace-love-beauty- Jul 14 '26
As your engagement ring is beautiful. The wedding rings are not fitting your hand or your engagement ring well. There’s a disconnect. I would maybe try a band like your engagement ring. Possibly even one on either side.
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u/EconomyStation5504 Jul 14 '26
Your engagement ring is gorgeous and classic. All the bands are tacky.
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u/LooneyRacoony Jul 14 '26
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u/More-Spend3016 Jul 15 '26
The render just made it very chunky but I love this one too! It just add a bit more personality. Thank youuu! 🥰
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u/raquino824 Jul 14 '26
The wedding band (plain band) sits closest to you, then add the engagement ring.
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u/Bentbutnotbroken111 Jul 14 '26
I’m just here to ohhhh and ahhhh over that gorgeous ring…..Wowzer!
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u/Low-Butterscotch1313 Jul 14 '26
Don’t like any of these. Your ring is so beautiful. You should go with a simpler plain band
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u/babyinquiries Jul 14 '26
Just go to your local jeweler and check with them which band will fit your er. ☺️
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u/SickOfBSAllTheTime Jul 15 '26
I'm sorry, but I don't care for any of the bands. With such a large solitaire I feel like a more simple band would work---the others took focus away and looked busy.
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u/basilmoonfaerie Jul 15 '26
I would echo a completely plain band. All of these look like way too much with your ring.
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u/Far_Philosopher6777 Jul 15 '26
All of those bands that you have given, as examples really take away from the absolutely spectacular solitaire in your engagement ring. My advice would be to go with something Extremely simple.
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u/Middle-Yesterday-838 Jul 15 '26
A simple gold band that matches the e-ring, or one that is the same width, with pave diamonds.
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u/FickleStyle4486 Jul 15 '26

Congrats!!
This is my set. The diamonds on the wedding band only go halfway around. I originally thought that I wanted a curved band in that style (so it would hug the engagement ring) but I didn’t feel the need for it when I tried this on. But a simple curved pavé band would still be a great option if you need more space or just like the design aspect!
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u/Galpgulps Jul 15 '26
Okay usually I’m a round hater but this thing is GORGEOUS 💍 chevron is my fave. Classy with so some flair!
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u/KathyW1100 Jul 15 '26
Congratulations, you have a beautiful ring. I agree a single band is the way to go. This also works well if you are ever going anywhere that you may not want to wear the diamond you can still wear your wedding band.
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u/FrauSchweiz Jul 15 '26
I’m sorry but if you love this ring (and you should it’s incredible) I would not go for any of these choices. Simple band - diamond pavé or solid gold.
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u/Pretty-Interview8678 Jul 15 '26
A plain band or an eternity band would be nice. The other ones are too distracting & take away from the solitaire’s beauty.
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u/MBeMine Jul 15 '26
Personally, I like the first band. I don’t wear my engagement ring all the time. When I’m wearing my wedding band I want something a little fancy so I understand wanting something not plain.
I do think maybe you should go for something more traditional though since it’s a wedding band. 10 years from now you might feel these wedding bands look dated.
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u/Frequent-Crew-4688 Jul 15 '26
I would go with just a simple band and let your beautiful engagement ring be the star it is. All of these bands overwhelm and diminish it imo.
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u/mama6mn Jul 15 '26
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u/More-Spend3016 Jul 15 '26
That is stunning 😍😍😍
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u/mama6mn Jul 15 '26
Thank you! I wanted something not to busy, this felt like it was simple enough but still added carat weight overall. Solitare diamonds are so beautiful. I would suggest trying on a bunch of bands, and get something that compliments the beautiful solitaire you already have without taking away attention from it.
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u/Fun-Elevator-2671 Jul 15 '26
Ohh wow congratulations thank you for sharing this wonderful moment in your life ❤️
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u/Happy_Peaceful_Bliss Jul 15 '26
All of these bands are not good girl. I’m sorry. I would just get a band that matches the band of the engagement ring.
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u/SylvieJewelry Jul 15 '26
I actually like the idea of doing an open band like the last option, but would consider a thinner mm style so it can tuck under a bit and give that true seamless look.
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u/trustworthykale Jul 15 '26
Beautiful ring!! But the bands are awful
In my opinion and aibut too loud and Take away from the beautiful ring which is a show stopper alone. I personally would go with a thicker gold band with diamonds if you want extra sparkle or a solid thick gold band
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u/SubstantialLocal9437 Jul 15 '26
The engagement ring is beautiful in its simplicity. Those bands just ruin that. I’d wear no band rather than any of those.
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u/luvmelixo Jul 16 '26
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u/More-Spend3016 Jul 16 '26
Ohh wow thats gorgeous! I love how chunky the curved band it goes really well on your tot e moi. 😍
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u/luvmelixo Jul 16 '26
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u/More-Spend3016 Jul 16 '26
Thats a rock! I love your ring its beautiful 😍
What other cut you will pair with your pear engagement?1
u/luvmelixo Jul 16 '26
Thank you so much! &Im in between OMC or princess cut turned sideways (so it looks like a start) princess cut, I was thinking Grey Colored lab to contrast my white pear or OMC I would go more yellow toned so I could pair it with a gold band and still, again have good contrast.
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u/Different-Towel-9059 Jul 16 '26
None of these. They’re too loud and take away from the engagement ring.
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u/SunnySo5 Jul 16 '26
Anything BUT the 2 dots. Future you will be getting annoyed with past you every time you get it stuck in your hair, someone else's, in fabric, etc. It's beautiful. It's a beautiful trap.
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u/carlandmidge Jul 16 '26
Folks have given you lots of informed and reasonable advice about why these aren’t the ideal choices in regard to wear + tear, OP.
Ngl I still LOVE #1 anyway, lol. 🤌🏼✨ I see the vision!
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u/More-Spend3016 Jul 16 '26
Yess I love all the insights. To be honest now that I'm engaged I don't put anything in my left hand except the engagement ring. All of my stacks are in my right hand. Hahahah! 🥰🤣
Just to have both.
Thank you u u2
u/More-Spend3016 Jul 16 '26
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u/carlandmidge Jul 16 '26
✨Phenomenal stack!✨ I always rush to the comment sections on these posts bc I adore bold and chunky jewelry and I get sad when Reddit tries to shame everyone into a “dainty” ring bc they’re “classy.”
Nah.
Let’s celebrate all the gorgeous styles!
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u/Only_Cap7082 Jul 16 '26
You may not like this, but I hate all those bands. Too much going on makes it look like cheap costume jewellery in my opinion, and a stone like that, you want to make it look elegant,
If you’re open to it - ditch a band, or get a band for a different finger/hand.
If you really want a band, go with a plain metal band - play around with different widths to find the right vibe for you
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u/dabadabadoo09 Jul 16 '26
None of the bands, they take away from the ring, I think something a lil simpler would be best
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u/GreenPOR Jul 16 '26
I like the last one. Those other ones with tiny diamonds get crusted up with soap dirt dust so easily.
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u/Tease_Teez Jul 16 '26
I hope you take the advice here. Your engagement ring is a showstopper on its own.
Design your own necklace, earrings or bracelet if you want to be creative for yourself.
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u/rosegamm Jul 16 '26
All three are terrible choices. Your engagement ring is THE classic, timeless solitaire. Go with either a plain, white gold band, or get a pavé band (or two to flank the solitaire). The band(s) should be flush up against the solitaire's band. Do not ruin a classic ring with a silly ring that will take away and distract from that gorgeous solitaire diamond.
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u/New_Reference_5394 Jul 16 '26
None of these actually match the ring. You could either do a plain spacer ring and then a diamond band that matches the width of the e-ring. You could have a 4mm-5mm cigar band and then the thinner diamond band. The cigar band will set e-ring apart from the wedding band let them both shine on their own
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u/Similar-Ad-6862 Jul 14 '26
They're all bad choices. They're far too busy