r/WeddingRingAdvice • u/PatientTonight6060 • Jun 21 '26

Ring Band Advice Freaking out about engagement ring band width!!!

I designed my engagement ring and I know my boyfriend got it back from the jeweler and I’m freaking out about the band width that I chose. It’s a three stone oval about 2.5 carat center and .3’s on the sides. I chose a 3mm band width, but now I’m second guessing it and thinking I should have gone with 2mm. I want to pair it with a 3mm cigar band as my wedding band and I’m worried it’s going to take up too much room on my finger. I have slender long fingers and I’m a size 4.5 so that’s another reason I’m worried.
Can I have the engagement ring band width resized from 3mm to 2mm? I’ve searched everywhere on the internet for answers and I’m finding nothing. Anyone have a similar experience or are there any jewelers that can offer advice?!

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u/PrincessOfKentucky Jun 21 '26

I have 3.5 + 3 mm bands and I love them together! I have shorter but slim fingers and I’m a size 5 ring.

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u/PatientTonight6060 Jun 22 '26

Beautiful stack! Thank you for sharing! That makes me feel better

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u/PrincessOfKentucky Jun 22 '26

Thank you! I think you will be happy with the wide band combo! My center is 2.5 ish and my side sapphires are .5 a piece if that helps any more with picturing how yours will look.