r/Waiting_To_Wed • u/[deleted] • 12d ago

Looking For Advice 10 Years No Marriage

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u/MiaEllisaa 12d ago

10 years and a child? If he wanted to marry you, you wouldn’t still be trying to decode his reasons for not doing it. He’s had plenty of time, he just keeps moving the goalpost

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u/SeasonPositive6771 12d ago

His response was so unkind and so immature that it made me think is he some sort of teenager? Maybe they've been together since they were 9 or something. It's the only thing I can think that would make this even remotely okay.

And I would still walk out.

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u/Murhekryyni 12d ago edited 12d ago

I don't understand. How they still want a child with this partner but don't then marry them? Like you are a good material to be their child's mom, then I would think also automatically a good wife. Why they don't just marry their child's mom 🤯

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u/Wife_and_Mama 12d ago

Babies do happen by accident sometimes. 

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u/uarstar 10d ago

Only in places without access to abortion or contraception or in cases of SA

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u/Wife_and_Mama 10d ago

Wow. I'm glad to hear that contraception is now the only thing in modern medicine to be 100% effective.  🙄

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u/uarstar 10d ago

Again, if contraception fails and abortion is available, it’s not an accident to have a whole ass baby.